Thursday, October 19, 2006

Welcome to the world of the Bad Girl!

There is a well-known saying that goes, "Good girls say, "No." Bad girls say, "When?" Although this statement has a sexual overtone, it helps remind us of the two quite distinct types of girls. The Bad Girl and the Good Girl. The niceness of the Good Girl are well known, but those of the Bad Girl make for analysis and creation of a blog entry like this.

Most men are mesmerized by a particular girl, the one that seems to have all the attributes that men will kill for in order to have her. She is stunningly beautiful, and she knows it, she is charming, confident, smart, sharp and seems to get things going her way. She gets all the attention from men and since she knows this, and knows all the weaknesses of men, has an upper hand with men - almost all the time.

Hey guys, welcome to the world of the Bad Girl!

Its not easy to characterize her into the bad girl, but there are some traits that easily identify her.

Here is a quick summary.

She is attractive!

Not a coincidence that she has good looks. She also knows it and does everything in her ability to ensure she remains so and is seen so. She will wear make up, dress in designer clothes, wear a nice suave cologne, prep her lips, accentuate her hips, keep her nails and toes in shape, and all those other things that ladies do.

She is smart!
Talk of beauty and brains, she's got both. Actually, many are surprised at how this bad girl in college used to ace the exams yet be all over the campus bashes and bars and hengs. She is also good in the love game and can dog several men without being caught,

She is fun and exciting!
Being around her is never a dull moment. She will party at any available opportunity, crack jokes, poke at people around her, and ensure that the air around her is always vibrant.

She is the goddess of horny!
This is not the kind of girl that waits to be in the right mood. She is the kind that will always have a fantasy she would love to indulge in. Whereas other girls worry about the right place and time, she is ready to scream her orgasm in the boot of your car or on the office desk when others are at lunch. She is ready and all she needs is an opportunity.

She likes to experiment!
Whereas for starters the sex position may be missionary, she will introduce you to other styles, some of which will leave you in amazement as to whether you actually did them. She has several copies of Cosmopolitan and the word Kamasutra is not an Indian legend.


She doesn’t mind being shown!
You are an executive and have this cocktail party in one of the posh Nairobi hotels. Its a couples event and you need a girl under your arm. She will be very willing to accompany you, not just for the finesse, but since this will be another chance for her to show off and maybe, yes maybe hook up with another jamaa better than you.

She is a serial flirter!
Its not because she wants to, the attention from the men is too much to ignore. So, she flirts with all of them in order to rank and discard the boys from the men. She is a Jezebel, seductive and cunning. When she looks at you, she makes sure that its not just a look. She ensures that your imagination has been activated too.

She is bold, daring and dangerous!
This may be a good thing but in extremes, it may end up bad. She is the kind who will openly flirt with men who have partners and this may result in a fight. Since she likes the thrill, she may engage in drugs, alcoholism and other addictions.

She is possessive and protective!
She gets all the attention from the men. Well, you may say this is a good thing. However, in spite of the fact that she is a serial flirt, she does not condone the same from her partner. She cannot condone the idea that her man can see or flirt with another girl. She considers herself the only one worth to be the attention goddess.

She is not easy to maintain!
She dresses on designer clothes, goes to expensive restaurants, requires that you go with her for holidays, has a personal trainer to help her keep shape, a personal hair dresser and such stuff. If you aren’t loaded enuff and ready for high maintenance, woe unto you since she there will be another who can shine the bling.

She is somehow feminine!
Although most of her traits are bad, she hasn’t abandoned being a lady. She will sit with her legs crossed whenever appropriate, will be kind without being sugar-coated. She will behave like a lady without exaggerating this fact.

She is independent!
She knows how to stand on her own. She has a good job, maybe even some investments and lives a good life generally. She knows that men will come and go and thus has taken precaution to ensure that in dry spells, her livelihood is not threatened.

The Bad Girl is good if you can live with the above facts but she does not make a good partner for a long-term relationship. So, if you are just in it "to cook the ginyi" there are quite some things you can learn from her and just enjoy for the time being before she gets bored with you and the routine and runs off with your best friend!